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Posted in THE GRIND with tags on December 18, 2009 by sexedmusic

Raise your drinks!

Sometimes you can choose to be a sad panda.

If you ever actually read this blog, you’ll notice that the last week was a botched attempt at making consistent posts everyday while surviving a whirlwind of activity. I just wanna get everything done before Christmas.

(what do you hope to get?)

This is when I take a cue from Prince, and thangs get COOL.

Don’t expect an explanation.

I just want anyone who happens to be stressed out/emotionally distraught/hyperactive/unsure/anxious/pessimistic/blahblahblah/discouraged/hopeless/morose/glum/bleak/dejected/sad the opportunity to get down tonight – TO THIS.

{click for Friday’s song}

We all need it the same.




Posted in THE GRIND with tags on December 16, 2009 by sexedmusic

At least that’s what my mom says.

At Christmas time, I’m addicted to:

{click for Wednesdays song}

P.S. – I left my camera at a party last night and I can’t do the PAST 7 today 😦



Posted in THE GRIND with tags on December 15, 2009 by sexedmusic

Today we had an incredible photo shoot with the amazingly brilliant Sarah Bastin!

It’s been quite a while, and I kinda forgot how to get down.

Within about 20 minutes tho, we were back and killin’ it.

Supa excited about these ones. They turned out really dope….

{click for Tuesdays song}

Were all models,, ya know what I mean.



Posted in THE GRIND with tags on December 14, 2009 by sexedmusic

Do you ever get the feeling time is running out?

Like every day passing is one step closer to a window of opportunity closing?

Like you need to take advantage of every single day and live life to the fullest?

{click for Mondays song}



Posted in THE GRIND with tags , on December 11, 2009 by sexedmusic

The coming weeks before Christmas need to be tackled with the force of a freight train! What I plan to accomplish will hopefully serve to remind me that I can do anything I set my mind to.

Without getting into too much detail, it can be said that this particular project has been over 2 years in the making. It’s the beginning of it all (so to speak).

I will finish it before Christmas.

I will make it amazing.

I am writing it on here so I have no one to answer to but myself.

{click for Fridays song}

I’ve got it – I’m good.



Posted in THE GRIND with tags , , on December 10, 2009 by sexedmusic

Who wants to be normal nowadays anyway?

Why not just try and become “weird-cool”?

Think about it –  when Lady Gaga first came out, she wasn’t THAT weird. She wasn’t really that much different than any other dance-pop chick. She even had Colby o’ Donnis on the track….do you remember him? Exactly.

As an amalgamation of all that had come before her, she became the new face of pop. Then, as her singles slowly climbed the charts and she began to infiltrate and dominate mainstream culture, she went decidedly weirder. This escalated and peaked (imo) with a memorable outfit that looked like she had just been enjoyably beaten in a basement for the last 3 days. She rocked that shit on the carpet!

Good for you Lady Gaga….you weirdness has become and enduring staple……

But what about truly weird people who don’t have a chance at ever being cool?

What about people who use unfounded techniques to justify their weirdness?

What about people who do things that appear to be weird just so they can, and not cause they’re ACTUALLY weird.

Calculated weirdness perhaps?….

But isn’t that an oxymoron? It’s like, truly insane people don’t actually know they’re insane (silence of the lambs style).

Almost like weird fashion that tries so hard to be weird, it’s not even fashionable…..or practical.

Are the truly weird aware?

{click for Thursdays song}

What kind of weird are you?



Posted in THE GRIND, Thoughts/Whatevs with tags , on December 9, 2009 by sexedmusic

When I was between the ages of 17 – 22, I developed a thing for older women. Besides sharing an attraction, I felt like I could comfortably hang out with them and have a really good time. I also began learning information about the opposite sex that would ultimately make me a better catch for future girlfriends. They loved the fact that I was interested and willing to learn…you could say we made a excellent match (no strings attached).

I realized that just because you’re older, doesn’t mean you can’t have  fun. Infact, I found 30+ women to be WAY MORE FUN than a lot of the girls I was hanging out with during that period around my age. They weren’t interested in games, and made it known that shit like that wouldn’t be tolerated (lol). In the end, I was lucky enough to share space with some females who had truly made it on their own. Women who had vision, ambition, and drive.

They taught me to be secure in myself, and that focus and determination were sexy. Honesty, compassion and communication were the most important aspects to anything, and overall gave me an appreciation for a capable and energetic female.

{click for Wednesdays song}

For all the advice I am truly thankful….